Attachment between autistic children and their parents is often strong, though it may look different from typical expressions of closeness. Many autistic kids form deep emotional bonds, but they may show attachment through unique behaviors, such as seeking comfort in routines, preferring familiar environments, or expressing affection in nontraditional ways.
Research suggests that autistic children can be just as attached to their parents as neurotypical children. The difference lies in how attachment is communicated. For example, a child may not always seek eye contact or physical hugs, but they might demonstrate closeness by staying near a parent, sharing special interests, or relying on them for reassurance during transitions.
Parents play a vital role in nurturing these bonds by recognizing and respecting their child’s communication style. Building trust through patience, consistency, and responsive care strengthens attachment and helps children feel secure.
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